Hi, my name is Roberta I was born in São José dos Campos but I´ve never lived there, I really just born there.
When I was 2 years old I went to Arabia Saudita to spend almost 2 years. My father is a engineer so he was tranfered to there. I really don´t remember any thing but my mother and my father said that was a great experience.
After this I went to Sao Paulo. I lived in Alphaville until last year when I got married. Now I am living in Moema. I am liking so much, everything is easier because almost everything that I do is in SP.
I work in CTBC is a Telecom company I am responsable to Sales support area.
Hi Roberta,
Just like Renata, you have moved a lot in your life due to your parents. What was it like not having a place to call home? When people move a lot, they don’t develop a sense of home because they learn NOT to get too emotionally attached to their surroundings because they might have to move and leave everything behind one more time. It is a way to protect ourselves from getting hurt.
Now that you have settled down with your husband in Moema, do you think you can start calling Moema home? Also, if your husband decided to move, or got a promotion in a far away place, would you be willing to give up on everything and just leave everything behind — your job at CTBC and your apartment in Moema — for the sake of marriage? Wouldn’t it be like it was in the past with your parents?
What should be more important in a woman’s life? Their career or their family? Do you think that it is truely possible for a woman to be successful both at home and at work? Don’t you think that there should be a time in their lives that they will have to choose whether they are going to devote more of their time to their work or their family? Can they do both simultaeneously and successfully?
What is your opinion on it?
Rick
Hi Rick,
It´s true that I moved some times but not so much as you think. Maybe because I did the change when I was very child almost 3 years old so I didn´t meromize them. I lived in Santos and Arabia Saudita after it I moved to alphaville and lived there until last year. So I develop sense of home there. I spent a lot of moments there since 7 years old until 30 years old. It was very wonderfull for me.
Now I am married it´s a new phase and I am very happy. For me family is the most important thing in our life. With it we have possibility to do everything that you want. I think thad shoud be very sad live alone. For woman that works is difficult to equilibrate every thing, if you find a job that gives you flexibility in you schedule everything becames easier. As all situations we have two sides the good one and the bad, we need to have hability to have the better decision.
I hope a I have answer all your questions.
Regards,
Roberta